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Choosing the Right Life Partner

Blending timeless Quranic wisdom with practical emotional intelligence for single Muslims.

In Islam, marriage is not merely a social contract; it is described as half of one's faith and a profound source of Sakinah (tranquility), love, and mercy. This course demystifies the spouse-selection process by blending timeless Quranic wisdom and Prophetic guidance with practical emotional intelligence.

Sheikh Dr. Ahmad Saeed

Instructor

Sheikh Dr. Ahmad Saeed

Rating

4.8

Duration

6 Weeks

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Effort

2 Sessions/Week · 6 Weeks

Access

Lifetime Access · Mobile & Desktop

Reward

Certificate of Completion from UIA

Course Curriculum

Single Muslims Seeking Marriage
Module 1: The Blueprint of an Islamic Marriage (Week 1)
2 Lessons
Class 1: The Maqasid (Objectives) of Marriage Moving beyond societal pressure to understanding marriage as a vehicle for spiritual and personal growth.
Class 2: Deconstructing Myths Hollywood romance vs. Prophetic reality. Addressing the "soulmate" myth and unrealistic expectations.
Module 2: The Self-Audit — Are You Ready? (Week 2)
2 Lessons
Class 3: Emotional & Spiritual Readiness Healing from past trauma, addressing insecure attachment styles, and breaking generational cycles before tying the knot.
Class 4: Defining Your Non-Negotiables Distinguishing between preferences (wants) and core values (needs) in a future spouse.
Module 3: The Prophetic Criteria for a Spouse (Week 3)
2 Lessons
Class 5: The Hadith of Four Unpacking wealth, lineage, beauty, and Deen (faith). What does prioritizing Deen actually look like in everyday behavior?
Class 6: Character (Akhlaq) over Rituals Assessing emotional intelligence, anger management, and empathy — the true indicators of compatibility.
Module 4: The Process — Halal Courtship & Boundaries (Week 4)
2 Lessons
Class 7: Navigating the Search The role of the Wali (guardian), community networks, and the ethical use of Muslim matrimonial apps.
Class 8: The Art of the "Talking Phase" Setting physical, emotional, and digital boundaries to maintain Barakah (blessings) in the process.
Module 5: Asking the Hard Questions (Week 5)
2 Lessons
Class 9: Finances & Gender Roles Aligning on financial responsibilities, career ambitions, and domestic contributions.
Class 10: In-Laws, Family Dynamics, and Parenting Discussing living arrangements, boundaries with extended family, and future parenting philosophies.
Module 6: Decision Making and The Contract (Week 6)
2 Lessons
Class 11: The Fiqh of the Nikah Understanding the marriage contract, the Mahr (dowry), and the right to add specific stipulations/conditions.
Class 12: Seeking Divine Guidance (Istikhara) How to perform Istikhara correctly, interpreting the results, and moving forward with Tawakkul.

Assessment & Certification

Self-assessment journals, role-playing communication scenarios, and creation of a personalized 'Marriage Vision & Dealbreakers' blueprint.

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Sheikh Dr. Ahmad Saeed

Sheikh Dr. Ahmad Saeed

Marriage & Islamic Family Counseling Specialist

Sheikh Dr. Ahmad Saeed is a licensed marriage counselor and Islamic scholar who has guided over 600 single Muslims through the spouse-selection process. Combining a background in Clinical Psychology with advanced studies in Islamic Jurisprudence, he specializes in helping individuals overcome attachment wounds, unrealistic expectations, and cultural pressure to find genuine, faith-centered partnerships.

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Expected Learning Outcomes

  • Critically evaluate your own emotional, spiritual, and financial readiness for marriage, identifying areas for personal development.
  • Distinguish between superficial preferences and non-negotiable Islamic values to create a personalized framework for evaluating potential partners.
  • Establish clear, Shariah-compliant boundaries during courtship, balancing the need to get to know someone with preserving modesty.
  • Ask structured, revealing questions regarding finances, gender roles, conflict resolution, and family dynamics.
  • Articulate the legal requirements of an Islamic marriage contract (Nikah) and confidently negotiate the Mahr and personal stipulations.
  • Execute the prayer of consultation (Istikhara) without relying on cultural myths, to finalize a decision with confidence.